GOODBYE MY DARLING DAUGHTER
Current mood: bummed
MY DARLING DAUGHTER TANJA..!
A VERY WISE MAN, ALBERT EINSTEIN, SAID ONCE "..THERE IS NO GREATER TRAGEDY IN LIFE THAN THE LOSS OF A CHILD" IT IS AN UNIMAGINABLE TRAGEDY TO OVERCOME THE LOSS OF THREE OF MY CHILDREN. IT IS VERY HARD TO FIND YOUR HEALING PATH AFTER SUCH A CRUEL EVENT.
I FORGIVE YOU, MY DARLING DAUGHTER! I KNOW YOUR PAIN IN YOUR HEART, BODY AND SOUL MUST HAVE BEEN JUST UNBEARABLE TO LEAVE ME LIKE THIS. EMPTYHANDED, LOST AND THE WALL OF EMPTYNESS CLOSING IN. REMEMBER, MY SWEET ANGEL, AS YOU PROPABLY ARE ROCKI.NG YOUR LITTLE SISTER NICOLE AND HOLDING OPI'S HAND, KNOW HOW MUCH YOU MEANT TO ME. YOU KNOW, YOU WERE MY TOOTSIEFLUFF, MY SISTER, MY BEST FRIEND AND MY CONFIDANT. YOU WERE MY SOULMATE, MY DIAMOND IN THE ROUGH...
WHEN I FOUND YOU THAT NIGHT, 40 MINUTES AFTER. YOU CALLED ME AND SAID " GOOD NIGHT MAMA, I LOVE YOU, BUT I AM TIRED.. AND I AM GOING TO SLEEP NOW" I ARRIVED AT THE HOUSE AND I FOUND YOUR LETTER. I THOUGHT YOU WERE KIDDING, PULLING A BAD JOKE OR SHOWING ME YOUR NEWEST MICHAEL JACKSON COSTUME IDEA FOR HALLOWEEN.
SO I EXPECTED NOTHING BAD GOING DOWN THE STAIRS. I LOOKED IN YOUR ROOM, THE DOOR WAS OPEN. THE LIGHTS WERE ON. AN ODD SMELL IN THE AIR. I SAW YOU LYING THERE WITH YOUR BLACK AND RED HAIR ALL MANGELD UP AND SOME, WHAT I THOUGHT CREEPY HALLOWEENMASK ON YOUR FACE AS YOU WERE STARING AT THE CEILI.NG. "TANJA, THAT'S NOT FUNNY.." I YELLED OUT. "WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING UP IN THE CEILING FOR, AS I AM LOOKING UP TO SEE, WHAT YOU ARE STARING AT. THAN I SHOOK YOU, SHOOK YOUR HEAD, SCREAMED AT YOU "..LOOK AT ME, TANJA..!..!!!" AS I STARTED FEELING MY FINGERS AND HANDS GET WET. I LOOKED AT THEM. COULDN'T FIGURE OUT, WHY THEY ARE WET. THAN I REALIZED "IT IS BLOOD... THERE.. IS NO MASK!.. JUST A HUGE GAPING HOLE BETWEEN YOUR BEAUTIFUL EYES!..!..!..!..!..!!!" I STARTED SCREAMING... "OH GOD, NO, NO, NO! PLEASE NOT AGAIN..." STILL TRYING TO SHAKE YOU AWAKE WAITING FOR A MIRACLE. I FINALLY FOUND THE STRENGHT TO LET GO OF YOU AND CALL 911. THEY COULDN'T UNDERSTAND ME, COULDN'T DECIVER WHAT I WAS SAYING, COULDN'T UNDERSTAND OUR ADDRESS, CAUSE I KEPT WEEPING AND CRYING. FINALLY POLIC.E ARRIVED. I HAD TO PUT JAEGER IN MY ROOM, SO THEY COULD COME IN. THE POLICEMAN BROUGHT THE RESCUEGEAR... I GUESS.. THEY DIDN'T UNDERSTAND THAT THERE WAS NO HOPE FOR YOU. HE MADE ME GO BACK DOWNSTAIRS, WHERE YOU LAID IN YOUR BLOOD. NOW I SAW ALL THE BLOOD.ON THE WALL, THE BED, THE CEILING, THE CARPET. OZZY MUST HAVE STEPPED IN SOME OF IT, CAUSE THERE WERE BLOODY PAWPRINTS EVERYWHERE... NOW THE POLICE REALIZES THERE IS NO HELP, NO RESCUE. JUST YOUR SUICIDE. AS I AM STANDING BY YOUR SIDE, HOLDING YOUR HAND, HE TELLS ME TO LEAVE THE ROOM. I DIDN'T WANT TO GO, MY LITTLE GIRL... I KNEW IF I LEFT, THERE WAS NO RETURN. I LOVED YOU SO MUCH, I NEEDED YOU SO MUCH. WE LEANED ON EACH OTHER, SEND GOOFY TEXTS BACK AND FOURTH. I MISS YOUR EMAILS, ALWAYS SOME WEIRD GOOFY CLIP ATTACHED OR YOUR PANIKRIDDEN PHONECALLS.. "..MAMA,.. HOW DO I TURN THE COFFEEMAKER ON!' I STILL HAVE THE NOTE YOU LEFT ME ONCE ON THE COMPUTER "I LOVE YOU MAMA!.. MUAH TANJA..!" I TAPED IT GOOD, SO IT WOULDN'T RIP OR BREAK.
MY LITTLE ANGEL, I DON'T HATE YOU FOR DOING WHAT YOU DID. I COULD NEVER HATE YOU. I FORGIVE YOU FOR DOING WHAT YOU DID AND MAYBE, IF YOU WOULD HAVE KNOWN HOW HARD THIS IS FOR ME AND YOUR BROTHER, JUST MAYBE WE COULD HAVE CHANGED YOUR MIND. I KNOW IN YOUR SHORT LIFE YOU HAD MANY ILLNESSES TO BATTLE AND MANY MORE TO COME... KNOW THAT I AM HAPPY YOU ARE FREE OF PAIN AND SUFFERING AND I WILL LOVE YOU FOREVER TILL WE MEET AGAIN IN ETERNITY. TAKE CARE OF YOUR SIBLINGS FOR ME, MY SUNSHINE. KNOW THAT YOUR BROTHER AND I WILL TRY TO FIND PEACE, EVEN THOUGH, FOR NOW THERE IS JUST PAIN, TURMOIL, HURT AND AN INCREDIBLE EMPTYNESS. MY ARMS ARE STILL REACHING OUT, TRYING TO HUG YOU, JUST TO FIND, THERE IS NOTHING THERE...
I WEAR THE RING YOU BOUGHT ME EVERY DAY AS I AM TRYING TO HEAL. I MADE A HUGE POSTER OF YOU FOR THE LIVINGROOM WITH ALL YOUR GOOFY, SILLY AND CUTE POSES... MY GOSH GIRL, YOU HAVE A LOT OF PICTURES. AS YOU REQUESTED, I PUT YOUR ASHES NEXT TO YOUR SISTERS. WHEN IT IS TIME FOR ME TO GO, ALL OF OUR ASHES SHALL BE TOSSED INTO THE WIND, SO WE CAN BE FREE FOREVER AND EVER TOGETHER.
SLEEP TIGHT MY SWEET DAUGHTER
LOVE MAMA ..
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